The Trouble with Making Friends
April 6th, 2015
It is around eleven at night, and I am so tired. After showering from what felt like a long day, I feel so much better. Honestly, I feel like I have matured. I feel so much more independent. I think starting sophomore year and not really knowing anyone at my new high school was hard. I didn't really make friends too fast. I had to go through a lot of things by myself. Well, one usually has to go through things by their self, but I mean like no one was there to be by my side or anything. No one was there to guide me, give me advice, reassure me, etc. All I really needed was a "real" friend to understand me, accept me, and not judge me. I still need that friend, but I am more accepting of my situation now. I am just letting things be as of now. I do have a best friend, but I rarely see her and all. I do have friends at school, but is it wrong to ask for more. When I think about it, most of them are more like acquaintances. I think a guy once told me that I don't really have any friends. Sometimes I think he is right. I have problems just like everyone else. I am not always happy, and I hate having to act all happy around people because no one really wants to be around a depressed person. It does take time to build a connection in friendships and relationships. Sometimes two people can just click easily. However, that is simply not my case. I have tried time after time to make friends. I even did the stranger challenge back in 2014. There is so much to say but some emotions and thoughts are just too hard to put into words. I have come to a conclusion that not everyone can be your friend. Well, I always knew that, but it never occurred to me so much how true that was until I came across this situation. One doesn't have to dislike the other person, but simply because two people don't have anything in common can be the reason why they can't be friends.
I have some similar topics on my blog that relate to this post. If you would like to check it out, click on the links:
http://theblogofmyeverydaylife.blogspot.com/2014/09/a-new-school-year.html
http://theblogofmyeverydaylife.blogspot.com/2014/10/lunch.html
http://theblogofmyeverydaylife.blogspot.com/2015/02/my-so-called-friends.html
Thanks for reading! Leave a comment below and tell me what you think. I would also love to hear any suggestions or requests on what I should blog next.
As always,
Lisa :)
It is around eleven at night, and I am so tired. After showering from what felt like a long day, I feel so much better. Honestly, I feel like I have matured. I feel so much more independent. I think starting sophomore year and not really knowing anyone at my new high school was hard. I didn't really make friends too fast. I had to go through a lot of things by myself. Well, one usually has to go through things by their self, but I mean like no one was there to be by my side or anything. No one was there to guide me, give me advice, reassure me, etc. All I really needed was a "real" friend to understand me, accept me, and not judge me. I still need that friend, but I am more accepting of my situation now. I am just letting things be as of now. I do have a best friend, but I rarely see her and all. I do have friends at school, but is it wrong to ask for more. When I think about it, most of them are more like acquaintances. I think a guy once told me that I don't really have any friends. Sometimes I think he is right. I have problems just like everyone else. I am not always happy, and I hate having to act all happy around people because no one really wants to be around a depressed person. It does take time to build a connection in friendships and relationships. Sometimes two people can just click easily. However, that is simply not my case. I have tried time after time to make friends. I even did the stranger challenge back in 2014. There is so much to say but some emotions and thoughts are just too hard to put into words. I have come to a conclusion that not everyone can be your friend. Well, I always knew that, but it never occurred to me so much how true that was until I came across this situation. One doesn't have to dislike the other person, but simply because two people don't have anything in common can be the reason why they can't be friends.
I have some similar topics on my blog that relate to this post. If you would like to check it out, click on the links:
http://theblogofmyeverydaylife.blogspot.com/2014/09/a-new-school-year.html
http://theblogofmyeverydaylife.blogspot.com/2014/10/lunch.html
http://theblogofmyeverydaylife.blogspot.com/2015/02/my-so-called-friends.html
Thanks for reading! Leave a comment below and tell me what you think. I would also love to hear any suggestions or requests on what I should blog next.
As always,
Lisa :)
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